Friends?

“we assume others show the love the same way we do ㅡ and if they don’t, we worry it’s not there”

Like friendship.

Some friends prefer 

to be hug instead of hugging .

Some friends prefer to 

share their food

 but some might be like

‘Don’t touch my food or i’m gonna stab your hand with my fork’

Although i usually eat with my right hand, but duhh.

Some friends be like

 ‘girl, tell me what happen with you and that guy’

Some be like ‘ Masya Allah sister, that’s haram shit you’re doing’

Some friends be like 

‘don’t do it man, you’re gonna regret it later’

Some be like ‘ you know i love you man Wallah, but that thing you’re doing is so dumb and i ain’t gonna approve it’

And there ain’t nothing wrong with how our friends act. As long as we know that, they are our friend.

And regardless of how many friends that we have, each one of them gonna have different personality and values that we should embrace and admire.

And one of the hardest process of growing up is to choose our friend.

Like seriously,

Some friends expect so much out of us. Sometimes we do understand their problems, but acted we’re not. So that they experienced it like how we did. 

Like woman, you’re growing up. 
So chill.

And how some friends can be really possessive. It might be okay sometimes, but it can also be a disease in a friendship.

We want our friends to always be there for us, but they also need their freedom.

And we need to understand and respect that.

And

You always have that one friend who don’t understand the topic

TPD’s

But sometimes things arent shown. They are felt. 

They are felt thru words, actions, the way they look at you,the way they trust you to tell their deepest secrets,the way they feel comfortable to be around you- to laugh until they snort, making faces and stupid jokes,looking at your worst and still accept u for who u are. Love, thats love.

The fact that u want the love to be shown, thats called uncertainty.Uncertainty leads to insecurities. With that, ask yourself, is that love?

ABRACADABRA’s

Its actually so close to how I would define friendship.

Friends are the family that we choose. We never know whether they remember us, think about us or even count the blessings of how great those tiny little memories that we’ve spent together in this long journey called life the same way as we’re.

Sometimes, deep down, I think it’s time. It’s time to meet them, talk to them and tell them of how precious, how wonderful, and describe how grateful that we’ve met. Even if the feeling, was only mine in the first place, only then, they’ll know, of how I appreciated them, how I adore them and how I felt blessed being there, having them, with me.

But then, I don’t think I should. Because, the fact that these tiny little things, isn’t worth mentioning. And moreover, sometimes, when we tend to make our confessions, the feeling isn’t there. Anymore. Or might be, won’t be there. Because the feeling, is meant to be expressionless, undescribable, and the place was meant only there, deep down in our heart. 

Because when “we assume others show the love the same way we do”, it might be hurtful that actually, it’s never there.

And actually, the feeling of wanting to be treated special, is always there in everyone. Or most likely, wanted to be treated the same way as we did is there, in us. So, the most important thing in friendships is, a sincere heart to mend a lost soul and a sincere love to repair a broken heart and there it goes, the worry feeling, won’t be there

So this is it, our opinions.

Love, peccatori tpd and abracadabra☺️